Monday, December 1, 2008

Rough Draft of final Paper

            In today’s era, production and consumption of goods and services are the focal points of our society. “Sex sells” is the most common line given by people when asked why the common look of advertisements is a perfectly attractive person in a provocative and often idealized fantasy setting. Women are used in advertisements far more than men are, and are used to sell a variety of products ranging from cleaning supplies to automobiles to food and beverages. What each of these ads have in common is the stereotypical look that the woman posses. This look can be defined as the beauty myth; a young, thin, able-bodied woman with perfect hair, skin, and body shape, and more often than not is Caucasian (UNPAC). A quick flip through any magazine or glimpse at a television will confirm such a stereotype. However, advertisements were not always formatted in this way. Just over forty years ago, advertisers took a completely different approach to getting their message across to female consumers, and many decades before that, branded advertisements were nearly obsolete.

            When exploring the affects of advertising on women and the current problems with its influence on us, it is best to begin with the history of advertising itself and how women first came to be not only a target of ads, but the main component used to sell products. Throughout most of the nineteenth century, consumers would take their own containers to the market and fill them with generic products, as brands were not developed yet. Proctor and Gamble introduced Ivory soap in 1879, and this product started the trend for brands. Other brands quickly developed by numerous companies and filled the shelves of stores, and the need for advertising to promote such brands began. The common design for advertisements promotes the product “with romantic images of perfect people in a dreamy world” (O’Barr). These dreamy worlds began to be created by using women’s beauty and desired lifestyles to appeal to female consumers because women made and still make approximately 80 percent of consumer purchases. The first era of advertisements aimed to appeal to women in light of making their lives easier and less stressful as a housewife and homemaker, but with the feminist movement women’s independence grew and ads changed to encourage this through the purchase of specific brands and products. When women were solely in charge of household chores and upkeep, laborsaving products were the focus of advertisements, but the women selling such products still embodied a desirable essence that every housewife in America wished to encompass. Eventually, beauty became the main focal point in advertising, and any good or service being sold used and often abused the power of an idealized beauty. More specifically, until the 1970s the purpose of nearly all adverts was to make life easier for everyone, not just for the housewife, but the man of the house as well.   After the 1970s, women gained a sense of empowerment with the feminist movement, and ads reflected that because of brands stating that their product encouraged independence, female authority and empowerment.  Although this change happened nearly forty years ago, the first desire for beauty erupted much earlier with the first nude photograph of prostitutes being taken in 1840. “Most of our assumptions about the way women have always thought about “beauty” date back to no later than the 1830s, when the cult of domesticity was first consolidated and the beauty index invented” (Wolf, 123). With the rise of independence came a rise in a desire for beauty that takes an advantage of female empowerment, and the advertising industry formed a beauty myth that still has not been broken, almost two hundred years later.

            Although the beauty myth has been enforced for decades, the look it encouraged has drastically changed in just the last ninety years. In the 1920s, pin up girls, seen commonly in ads at that time, had much different body types than women in ads today. Such women had curvy bodies that, in today’s industry and society, are seen as fat. They had thicker legs and round tummies. They had voluptuous breasts and booties. This was desirable, and the most famous woman for such attributes was Marilyn Monroe, whose size would be an ‘unacceptable’ 10 or 12 by today’s standards. In fact, the winner of America’s Next Top Model Season 10, Whitney Thompson was labeled as a ‘plus-size model’ due to her size 10 body, but by comparison to the average American woman was not plus-size at all (Starr).  Models of such curvaceous sizes were the encouraged look in advertisements in the early 1900s, and all of that changed when Twiggy became an American favorite in the 1970s (notjustskindeep). From then on, a ‘twig-like’ shape was the next big new fad. Women in ads became skinnier and skinnier until curves became outdated. However, curvier shapes and a Marilyn sized body is the average of women today, but the fashion and production industry as a whole tells us otherwise, and we as a people continually sink lower into an advertising rut.

            Current problems surrounding women in advertising include issues with the modeling industry, physical and psychological affects on women and girls of the public, and the warped societal views of what beauty really is. These problems are interconnected in the sense that the cause of one has an affect on the others and vise versa. The root of the problem is society has evolved perception that physical beauty is what matters most in a woman. This view is so strong and spread globally that it single handedly controls the modeling and advertising industries that therefore greatly impact the girls and women of the world in numerous negative ways. Let us begin with the beauty myth. This term, coined by Naomi Wolf, encompasses the stereotypical and superficial meaning extrinsic beauty has been given by the advertising industry. Wolf states that, “the beauty myth is not about women at all. It is about men’s institutions and institutional power,” and femininity is essentially equated with beauty, which is therefore seen as the definer of a woman’s worth (Kesselman 119). Graciela Rodriguez shares her personal experience that is not unlike tens of thousands of other women worldwide. She points out the underlying reason women and girls strive to look like the models in their magazines and other advertisements: “the media’s and society’s images of women…promised acceptance and happiness if I could only look like them [the models]” (119). This promise of acceptance seems to be working on women according to these statistics: the diet industry rakes in $33 billion per year, the cosmetics industry $20 billion, and the cosmetic surgery industry a whopping $300 billion (Wolf). Women’s insecurities are the underlying cause for such high rates of consumption and the promise brands give women is that their product will give them the look they have always unsuccessfully chased after. When that promised product does not work, like the ones before, women buy another and enter an unending cycle of the search for the magic product that will change their lives forever. The proof that advertising is at least somewhat responsible for these initial insecurities lies in the statistical evidence of the number of ads in women’s media. Studies show that, “women’s magazines have ten and one-half more ads and articles promoting weight loss than men’s magazines do,” and nearly 75 percent of those women’s magazine covers include at least one tip on how to change one’s appearance (MNet). Viewing such high rates of advertisements where the definition of beauty is thrown at the female reader gives her the desire to fit into the beauty stereotype that she does not fit into in her personal, however normal or healthy, body shape, weight, and overall appearance.

Women are trying any means necessary and available to try to have the right look that the models in the world of advertising behold. Money spent on cosmetics and diet plans is not the only thing women are sacrificing to fit into the mold of the beauty myth; physical and psychological health of women is at an all time low, and most is seen as a result of the media’s influence on us. For example, “by the time they reach 13 years old, 53 percent of girls express dissatisfaction with their bodies; this increases to 78 percent for 18-year-olds. Additionally, losing weight is cited at the top ‘wish’ for adolescent and adult women” (Kesselman 119). Such insecurities, more often than not, become controlling factors in women’s lives as they try to achieve social acceptance and self-worth through striving for the perfect body. This ‘perfect body’ is one that excludes the bodies and overall looks of nearly all women, as the ideal body as shown by the advertising industry is one that is white, thin, young, and flawless. Most women know that the female looking back at her from the ad is not a real photograph--that the model has been airbrushed and edited to embody attributes that are not normal or even plausible for even the most famous and beautiful of women, but this does not stop the obsession with perfection.

To achieve a beauty that is acceptable by society’s standards, women suffer extreme health consequences that sometimes result in death. The Anorexia Nervosa and Related Eating Disorders Inc., a research group, estimates that one in four college-age girls use methods of weight loss and/or control that are unhealthy. The average model today weighs approximately 23 percent less than the average woman, and women are participating in life-threatening habits to achieve a goal that is impossible to achieve safely and healthily. Women are constantly competing with one another, trying to be as attractive as every other woman is whose looks she sees as superior to her own (MNet). It is estimated that 10 percent of women and girls in the United States alone suffer from diagnosed eating disorders. It is not rare for girls and women to hide their disorders, so in reality, the actual number of females with eating disorders much higher and those who go undiagnosed are less likely to receive treatment. Of the approximate 10 percent of diagnosed women, nearly 50,000 will die as a direct result of their eating disorder (Lightstone). Although these statistics are horrible to hear, there is hope. There is hope for women and girls exposed to advertisements that negatively affect their minds, bodies, and lives. There are many support groups, informational organizations, and even ad campaigns seeking to change the way women are viewed and portrayed by the advertising and media industry as a whole.

The future solutions to the problematic issues resulting from the role women play in advertising are off to a small, yet positive start. The most famous campaign for ending the harmful beauty stereotype is Dove’s Campaign for Real Beauty. Dove is a well-recognized brand that aims to sell its products to women, and instead of using models that fit the beauty myth’s standards, it is using real women with real bodies to sell their products. Surprisingly, this company is going a step further in the fight against the beauty stereotypes. Dove conducts Self Esteem Workshops all over the United States to educate women on loving their bodies the way they are and finding beauty within. Besides Dove, other groups, especially health organizations, aim to provide support and aid to girls and women suffering from self-esteem issues and health disorders ranging from physical to psychological problems. Aboutface.com, Womenshealth.gov, Womensselfesteem.com, and 4women.gov are just a few websites available that offer support, tips and advice on how to stay healthy in the body and mind, and how to strengthen one’s self-esteem, confidence, and independence from the ever-damaging beauty myth. The best way to solve the issues we currently face with women’s roles in the media and specifically advertising is to embrace our inner beauty and accept our physical beauty for what it is: unique, desirable, and feminine, no matter what we look like. Women need to join to fight the advertising industry by ending our support for companies and brands that negatively influence women. Dove has laid a path for others to follow, and that is what we must do. We must support each other and those companies that aim to make a change for the better. Feminists have worked for decades to get equal rights and the freedoms that we as women deserve, and it is time to fight once again; not for legal rights or legal justice, but for personal justice and freedoms from the patriarchal industry and society we currently live in.

With a little, or maybe a lot, of help, women can fight back and overcome the beauty myth. There is help, and “when women begin to defy social scripts for physical beauty, they can begin to see the beauty within themselves and define beauty in a more meaningful way” (Kesselman 119).

Saturday, November 15, 2008

True or False?

This video is one of a girl's "vlog" on losing thirty pounds. She wants to lose weight to become a model and is 5'8" and wants to weigh 90 pounds. 90 POUNDS! That is in no way healthy, and she is doing it on youtube.com and asking for the support of viewers. You can even subscribe to her vlogs and keep up with her weight loss. It is called "Watch Me Disappear-My Journey to a Size 0." How ridiculous is that? She admits to having an eating disorder that she physically recovered from, but not mentally. She wishes that she never recovered and is willingly relapsing. What do you think of her video? On the sidebar to the right there are more links to her later videos. I think she is sick and needs some serious psychological help, and soon, before she kills herself. How do girls get this way? What makes them feel that they have to weigh 90 pounds? I believe the blame should be put onto the fashion industry and the media. What do you think?

Curves?

This slideshow is supposed to show the positive transformation the fashion industry is making. Their big claim to fame is that a change in a few models from size 0 to 2 0r 4s has been hitting the runways. Check out the pictures in the slideshow... they are clearly girls that are no where near the size of a 4, or even a 2 for that matter. They are frail, colorless, wiry, and as boney as ever. I do not see any difference in these models from any others. One fifteen year old aspiring model lost ten pounds before coming before the designers, and when they say her body, they told her to lose more weight. "The look this year is anorexia. We don't want you to be anorexic but that's what we want you to look like." This is a direct quote from the article, and the goal is to raise awareness about the rate of eating disorders in the fashion industry. Some designers have been encouraged to change their standard size to a 6, but most do not want those type of curves. I find the whole "designers designate what size is beautiful" thing. I cannot stand it. Who says the people who make the clothes get to decide what the rest of us should look like. 

Fad Diets

I have heard this one before, and even read other interviews with Beyonce about this diet. She apparently tried this diet for the first time before the movie Dream Girls when she had to shed many pounds, and quickly. Beyonce is a woman known for her sexy curves, she flaunts them and rarely strives for that "stick thin" look we so often see in celebs these days. Anyway, this fad diet consisted of a concoction of maple syrup, lemon juice, water, and cayenne pepper. The maple syrup isn't any old Aunt Jemima's, though. It is an organic syrup called Madal Bal Natural Tree that is often used in "fat detoxes" or fasts. Beyonce lost twenty pounds in just fourteen days on this revolting diet. I cannot imagine trying to survive on such a concoction, and although it "worked" Beyonce was not happy during the two weeks of weight loss. You can check out her feelings on it in this article. Lets just say that she was pretty excited to restart her normal eating habits again. Check the quotes!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

"Dying to Fit In"

The entire article is chock full of important and relevant to my topic, but the section I want to focus on it called Dying to Fit In. Click on the green heading and it will direct you to this part of the page. A word this site uses to describe women is not we commonly hear in our society. "Prisoner" is the word this article uses to describe the women of America. "Women are enslaved to a beauty myth, chained to the false belief that our value is based on our appearance alone." I personally feel that this is extremely true for us as women, and may very well be true for women of other countries as well. Do you feel that as an American woman you are a prisoner to this stereotype and expectation of what you must be and/or look like? If so, where do you feel that this pressure comes from? Is it the media, your friends, family, or a combination or them all? If you do not feel that you a slave to a beauty ideal, how did you learn to rise above this expectation or even avoid it? Either way, it saddened me that most of the given information on frequent eating disorders and bad self esteem was not new to me. I feel that I am constantly surrounded by this information but few are doing anything to change it. Let me know how you feel!

Thin vs. Fit

Something that I have noticed before but have never really taken to heart or thought about thoroughly is the fact that models on magazine covers are more often thin instead of fit. Fit and healthy seem to go together, but the outstanding goal of the media seems to be to get women thin by any means, whether that makes us unhealthy or not. This article, from Pioneer Thinking, gives us not only tips on how to feel better about ourselves as women and as people, but it teaches how to protect ourselves from the judging and menacing eyes and words of the media. The media may try to tell us how to look, act, and feel, but that does not mean that we have to listen. Avoiding the media's portrayal of women is unavoidable because it is surrounding us all day every day. So, if we cannot avoid it, we must learn how to correctly interpret it and therefor react to it. Exercising regularly and eating healthy are good steps to making yourself feel and look 100%. Fight the urge to be thin, and instead get fit!

Get a Better Self Image

Here are 10 Steps to a Better Body Image. I know that doing these things will not improve your entire self-image overnight, but they encourage and teach women how to look at themselves in a more positive and satisfactory light than the media often puts us in. This article gives many tips on making yourself happy/satisfied on the inside instead of just looking at surface beauty. The author points out that "beauty is a state of mind, not a state of your body." I think this is an extremely helpful piece of informational opinion because it reenforces the idea that confidence is what makes someone beautiful and that when a woman is happy with herself, others see that and it transfers to her outer beauty, no matter her physical appearance. I encourage those of you who could use a self-esteem boost to try a few of these out and see how you feel. You never know, maybe it will change your mind on how you see yourself. 

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Real Life Question and Advice

A thirteen year old girl posted the following question on Yahoo! Answers recently. "Help please!  Am I too skinny? I am thirteen (in eighth grade) and I weight 80.2 pounds. My ribs are visible through my skin. I don't like eating a lot but I am a type 1 diabetic and I am suppose to eat certain amounts to maintain my blood Sugar and I usually eat that much some days less. Some people ask if I'm anorexic or bulimic but I'm not and I want to know how skinny is too skinny for my age? I'm 5'4"." You can read the various responses she received and judge them for yourself. Some tell her to eat more calories and foods with substance, some tell her she is too skinny for her age/height, and others compare themselves to her and say that she is just fine. What is your take on this? I feel like she is too skinny and maybe even unhealthy. I just do not believe that being only 80.2 pounds at her age is good. I know that I personally was always quite thin at that age, but I am shorter than her and never weighed that. If she is asking the question of whether or not she is too skinny, does that mean she doesn't have an eating disorder? Can we even judge that from the given information? Diabetes seems to be a big reason for how much food she eats. I just cannot see her being healthy if people commonly perceive her as too skinny or assume she is anorexic. 


Parent Involvement

This article was quite interesting. I can totally see this situation happening to a number of teens with their bewildered parents standing by without a clue as to what they should/could do to help their daughter. I have actually had this experience with my own mother many times as a young teen: none of my clothes look as good on me as on models, so I must be fat, and my whole body (which is actually healthy) is covered in ugly fat. I hate to admit that I ever had those thoughts, but I believe that being honest about our personal issues helps break societal barriers. Anyway, the article goes on to give parents some advice on listening to their child, understanding where she (the daughter) is getting these thoughts, and how to spot an eating disorder. I think information like this is important for parents because many have no clue how to help. Do you agree with the given tips, and have you ever been in a similar situation? What do you think helps girls in this situation? Empowered Parents 

Ruby

Ruby is a new reality show on Style Network. I saw commercials for it this weekend while watching TV, and decided to share it with you all. Ruby is a 500 pound woman, and the show will give an inside look at what her life is like--the struggles she faces, etc. Ruby's goal is to lose "hundreds of pounds" because her doctor has told her that if she does not lose the weight, she will definitely die. The executive producer is a close friend of Ruby's and she says, "Ruby really wants to inspire people. She's so entertaining and hysterical, so it's going to be an inspirational but also a really fun show (realitytvscoop.com). Style Network's website (which I recommend for a full view of the show and what it entails) has a whole mini-site about Ruby and her show, life, and even tips on how to deal with societal problems at such an extreme weight. Check out Ruby and let me know what you think. Do you think this show is a good idea and will help people and Ruby, or is it just another reality show to make money? (Notice the posed pics of Ruby on the site, don't they seem airbrushed and edited a little? Hmmmm)

Friday, October 24, 2008

Don't Die For a Diet

I was checking out YouTube for some examples of extreme diets and such, when I stumbled upon this scary, scary video. It starts out with a little girl, cutting out pictures of models from magazines. It goes on to give advice on how to stay thin, and tells viewers that one can never get too thin. These dangerous pieces of advice are apparently from actual pro-anorexia websites. The video ends with the instructions to NOT take this advice, and to follow the healthy advice of dontdieforadiet.com. I found this video to be quite disturbing, but I thought I would post it just to get some opinions on it. So, what do you think? Would this video help girls, or hurt them?  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBYt9bYu194

BMI Info

BMI is deemed inaccurate by many sources, but this site gives the best summary of why it isn't appropriate to judge yourself by this false measurement. As a young teen I used to constantly check my weight on the BMI scale and was so worried that I was fat. I have never been over a size 7 in my life, and according to the BMI I was at risk for obesity. First, BMI does not ask for age, it only requires an input of height and weight. Secondly, it does not take muscle mass into account. So, if an athletic girl who is not unhealthily overweight, she may often appear so to the BMI scale, inaccurately making her self conscious. Why is BMI set as a standard for women to hold themselves to when it is not even accurate? I first learned that I should hold myself to the BMI standard by a health article in Seventeen Magazine as a young teen, and I did not learn to stop thinking of myself outside of these weight standards until a few years later. B-M-I equals a big fat L-I-E!   http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2006/nov/28/healthandwellbeing.health1

Curvation Nation

Curvation may just be a Walmart brand of bras, underwear, and clothing, but they are making great headway into the new movement of teaching women to be comfortable and confident with their bodies. Curvation presents The Curvation Project Confidence Awards to recognize women who "personify and project the power of confidence through contributions to their local communities." The award is a $10,000 grant to put towards their program to help continue their work in building women's confidence. Queen Latifah, one of the most beautiful women ever, is a spokesperson for the foundation. I found this site in an US magazine-ironic, huh? Check out the sight to find out more! http://www.curvation.com/pc/awards.php

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Plus Size-Or Normal Size?

I will admit that I am an avid America's Next Top Model viewer, and I have no idea what makes this show so addicting, especially when most of the women are twigs. Anyway, while watching last season's show, I became attached to Whitney Thompson-she was the most naturally beautiful one, she had great personality, and her photos were fabulous. I immediately found myself crossing my fingers for her to get the win. Whitney did go on to win Next Top Model for that season, but the reason it made so many headlines is because she is the first "full-figure/plus size woman" to ever win ANTM. You can see on this page a photo of Whitney and she looks anything but "plus size." Given, they may have airbrushed and edited the bejesus out of her pic, but she is gorgeous without all of that. So many teens have written to her thanking her for her courage to stand up against the media's standards of beauty. I look up to Whitney for this too, and she should be seen as a beautiful woman...not a beautiful plus size woman. Bodies come in all different shapes and sizes, that is just what is natural. Each shape is beautiful, and maybe we need someone like Whitney to remind us 0f that. http://www.nypost.com/seven/05152008/tv/a_plus_model_110903.htm

"Sexy" Timeline

http://notjustskindeep.wordpress.com/2008/05/29/has-thin-always-been-in/ This page focuses on how the perception of sexy has evolved over the years. It begins with fashions in the West where the 'thin' trend seemed to have begun in the first place. As I scrolled down the page I was so shocked to see the older pictures and how much more there is to those women! They seem a little fat to me, but that is only because my mind is warped by today's disgusting standards. I feel so guilty that that is what I first thought. But, in my defense, I was glad to see the bigger size, and the more I looked at these women, the more beautiful they looked. So it seems I no longer have a true view of beauty that I personally hold to a standard. It seems that the media has ripped my views apart and brainwashed me. Maybe seeing these curvy, sexy women will undo a little warping. When I looked at the picture of Marilyn, I saw a body type very similar to my own, and knowing that she was seen as a sex symbol in the 50s and 60s made me realize that beauty has been taken way out of context in modern day modeling and media. As i went down the page the women just get skinnier and skinnier, and to me they became less beautiful. Protruding clavicles, sharp jaw bones, and countable ribs are not attractive, especially when compared to the pictures at the top of the page. If we naturally look more like the curvy women, then why is thin what is now in? We are fighting our natural women-ness to lose our curves. The collage of America's Next Top Model made me feel so fat, and that is just now how it should be. So, let's start a revolution: Long Live Natural Bodies! 

Men's Opinions on Curves vs. Ribs

Women often desire to be twig-thin because this is what they see portrayed in the media and therefor think that a toothpick is what they need to have to get a man. Well, although most of us hold our bodies up to a standard for ourselves but sometimes others as well, many women feel the need to change for men. For those women I share this piece of information: "latest poll shows 80% of men want curvy voluptuous women, NOT rail think stick models like we have been told." This is a quote from the article I am sharing with you. The 80% are attracted to bodies like JLo and 15% to average-sized women, and a mere 5% to skinny-minnies. So, ladies, if we are trying to look attractive to the opposite sex, losing a ton of pounds is apparently not the way to go. A man's opinion should never be the motivation behind a body transformation or self image in the first place, but I think it is nice to hear men speak out against the media's stereotypes of what is desirable. http://www.nancyhayssen.com/blog/6/why-thin-is-not-in-80-men-say-they-love-big-women/

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Say No To Size 0

Oh my goodness! This youtube video shows various pictures of scarily-skinny celebs and models. The music is hilarious, so make sure you turn your volume up. Each of these is a picture of a real woman and the size of them is haunting. I have seen some of these pictures in magazines before and they were praised for their sexy thinness. This is just disgusting and all I want to do is feed them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFxrwqo_j4A&feature=related
This video shows the original and then photoshopped version of modeling and celebrity photos. The end results are shocking. The ones of the natural beauty look just fine as they are, but the photoshopped version looks like a wax or mannequin figure. The last portion of the video take a play-by-play on the way an advertisement was made. A normal looking girl was completely transformed. I was shocked to see the differences, you will be too. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUUAgZ8f1OU&feature=related

Loving Your Body is Healthy

Women's health and body image are directly related to one another. Unhealthy eating habits and disorders develop from poor body image and self esteem. This is something that we all know and have probably experienced first hand at some point in time. Researching where the pressure for a perfect body image comes from is the first step to stopping the self hate so many women and girls have for their bodies. In a study conducted and reported on this site, when asked, 70% of adolescent girls wanted to be thinner, while only 7% wanted to be larger, and 33% were happy the way they were. Why do so many strive for thinness? Because thin is what's in! The standard sizes of women and girls has been changed from 6, 8, and 10 to 0, 1, and 2. This website is based in Australia, which proves that body image and problems with the media is not just an American problem, it is a world problem. You can read all of this and more on this mind and body health conscious group. http://www.womhealth.org.au/studentfactsheets/bodyimage.htm

About Face

About-face is an amazing website fighting the media's negative and destructive portrayals of women. Their slogan is "Don't Fall for the Media Circus!" I think this is just a great milestone that women have made. There are various links on About-Face and it is so fun to play around and read the articles. They have a list of "offenders" who are companies or organizations targeting women through advertisements that induce negative body and self images as well as lower self esteem of many girls. There are some sections full of facts, such as "90% of all girls ages 3-11 have a Barbie doll, an early role model with a figure that is unattainable in real life." They give examples of appropriate role models for women and young girls. They include the Dove Campaign in there positive role models, which I have mentioned before in my blog. Check out this site, it is an great place to explore. You can even buy some cool posters! http://www.about-face.org/

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Stereotypes

"Women are pressured to have hard bodies and silky hair, along with sparkling white teeth and abs of steel, but where do these stereotypes come from? Is it from the books they read or the schools they go to? Or maybe it's from two of the most popular forms of media today; movies and television." This is a quote summing up the most common form of stereotypes women face  when they turn on the television, sit down for a movie, or flip open a magazine. If you have all of these qualities, well then good for you I suppose, but I know that I sure don't have hardly any of them, but I am pretty happy with myself. My question is exactly that from the quote-where did these stereotypes come from? Yes, they are unavoidably seen in the media, but where did the people behind the media come up with such stereotypes? Who stood up and said "This is what I think we should make beauty look like, so let us make all the women set this ridiculous standards for themselves." Yeah, I doubt it, too. Every woman is different. If we all held each and everyone of these stereotypical qualities of beauty the world would be a boring, and in my opinion, an ugly place. Curves are what make women's bodies so wondrous, not lumps of hard muscles everywhere. What do you think and how do you react to these stereotypes when you are faced with them? http://media.www.quchronicle.com/media/storage/paper294/news/2005/02/16/Commentary/Stereotypes.Of.Women.Are.Widespread.In.Media.And.Society-865192.shtml

Average Lives Cannot Handle Celeb Diet Plans!

We all know that celebs have ridiculous diet plans and exercise techniques and schedules, but why do we allow ourselves to think that each of these mostly extreme weight loss ideas are good for us? So many of these celebs tell readers that they exercise nearly EVERY day of the week, sometimes for over two hours per day! Now, hardly any of us have time like this on our hands to devote to such prolonged sweat time, let alone with a five star trainer. The foods they include in their diets are expensive and often delivered to their homes ready to eat. The average woman hardly has the time to make it through her week normally, let alone with such weight loss dedication included. There are countless websites chock full of diet tips, recipes, and exercise plans. Tell me, how many of you would be willing and or/pumped to follow these tactics? (Especially something as hard core as fasting for 21 days!)

Airbrushing-It's Lies I Tell you!

If you think that all those sexy fems in our magazine ads and on the covers are as good looking in person as they appear to be in the photos, think again. Airbrushing and all kinds of digital photo editing unnaturally enhance these women's looks to make them more desirable-but does it? Millions of teenage girls read these magazines, pining over the images they see that do not even closely resemble themselves. Many, including myself at one point in time, believe that they will not be acceptable unless they mirror these looks, however fake they may be. However, actions are being taken to lessen the amount of digital editing allowed. These images are creating a beauty standard that is not only unhealthy, but unattainable. The beauty is fake--so trying to achieve it is hopeless. What actions do you think should be taken? Have you personally been affected by such images? Check out Newsweek's article at http://www.newsweek.com/id/135166

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Visible Secrets





I found each of these images on http://postsecret.blogspot.com/  and found it quite disturbing that so many secrets are sent in about negative body image. What do you think about these postcards? I wonder how many women (or men) feel the same way as those who sent in such secrets? Eating disorders, perfect lives, and thinness are not related. One does not give you the other. Being thin does not fix life's problems, but why do so many of us think that it will? How many more women out there have these same secrets? 

The Skinny on Stereotypes

Right away this article points out that using the female body to sell products is no longer common-it is the norm. Everywhere we look there is a tall, thin, beautiful woman trying to sell us something. Oftentimes, however, instead of seeing the product, women see the image of someone they are expected to look like. I went into my local grocery store and counted how many magazines had weight loss tips or body critiques. Out of all of the women's magazines, only two did not. We are thrown into a world where the stakes for beauty are at unreachable heights. Rarely do readers think about the airbrushing and photo editing  that went into that photo to make that women so beautiful. All we see is something we aren't. Unhealthy eating habits develop, and satisfaction is hardly ever attained. 

The Media Awareness Network is a great cite for support AND information

Self Esteem Workshops, a Thing of the Future?

Over the summer I saw a commercial for Dove. Instead of trying to sell me something, it showed a little girl being exposed to various forms of media showing her what she is 'supposed' to look like. It then described the new confidence-building campaign Dove is launching. They are spreading the word that beauty stereotypes are an extremely negative influence on women. Dove is stepping in and trying to help girls and women everywhere overcome these stereotypes and love their bodies, no matter their shape.
Here's the link to the Campaign for Real Beauty, so check it out and love that gorgeous bod! http://www.dove.us/#/cfrb/